If you’ve ever heard of a twin flame relationship, you’ve probably, like me, been pretty confused…
There’s so much information about twin flames out there, it’s easy to get lost.
Thankfully, I’ve put everything you need to know about twin flame relationships right here! Get ready, because we’re going to dive into the intricacies and spiritual meanings behind twin flames, and it’s going to be awesome.
Just hold on a second, before we dive straight in, it’s important to explain the difference between twin flames and soul mates (there’s a BIG difference!) Soul mates are your life partners, you share an exceptionally strong bond with them.
In a sense, they compliment your expression and tend to be great friends. You might find it surprising that soul mates can be family members or friends, not just lovers.
Twin flames, unlike soul mates, are a direct reflection of who you are and everything that entails. Whereas soul mates align with your ideas, thoughts and beliefs, a twin flame was part of the same soul as you.
In other words, they’re cut from the very same “spiritual cloth” as you were. Now, their souls are their own, but having come from the same source as yours, the similarities are unbelievable.
To sum this all up, soul mates are people you have a strong bond with, whereas twin flames are essentially direct reflections of who you are. Keep that in mind while reading!
What Does It Mean to Be in a Twin Flame Relationship?
A twin flame relationship is one of the most revealing and awakening life experiences out there. Among other factors, being in a twin flame relationship means finally having a deep, true and spiritual conversation with your own consciousness.
On a deeper level, twin flames, having once been part of the same, greater conscious soul, share an innate, deep connection. That’s why twin flame relationships are often compared to mirrors. A twin flame acts as a spiritual window into the deepest, most hidden away aspects of your soul. In turn, this means that having a twin flame in your life is a sign of a much greater spiritual happening.
That spiritual happening, or awakening, is the most beautiful thing!
But it’s also the most difficult aspect of a twin flame relationship, and possibly one of the greatest challenges anyone could ever face. Naturally, however, the spiritual awakening and growth are more than worth it.
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On that note, being in a twin flame relationship, in and of itself, is a sign of never-before-seen accelerated spiritual growth. Often, this leads to such a massive shock that the innate reaction is to run away. This is why twin flames often spend months, even years apart. On the other hand, going through this leads to the rejuvenation of your spiritual self.
Being in a twin flame relationship means embarking on the spiritual growth journey of a lifetime.
Now, let’s look over some signs, so you can recognize your twin flame relationship!
5 Signs You’re In a Twin Flame Relationship
1. You Feel Right at Home
With your twin flame, things “click”. There’s no need to hide your true, inner self with them. Twin flames just understand each other.
Being cut from the same spiritual cloth, twin flames understand each other at a deeper level than any other relationship or person can strive for. There’s nothing to hide in a twin flame relationship. There’s no motive to hide anything anyway!
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If you find yourself with a person that you can talk to as a best friend, confidant, and lover all at once… That very well might be a twin flame relationship. It goes without saying that honesty is not even a question in a twin flame relationship. That’s not to say it will never come into the limelight as it’s still a relationship, and relationships run into trouble… But it’s just easier to be honest in a twin flame relationship. In a twin flame relationship, both members know everything about the other.
Being with your twin flame feels like being right at home since both souls are fundamentally aligned in their beliefs. There’s no better way to explain it than comfort! In a twin flame relationship, talking about feelings or innermost thoughts is clear, simple and easy.
In the same vein…
2. You Can Go to Each Other for Support
Naturally, because you feel right at home with your twin flame, it’s easier than anything to ask them for support. When things get tough, almost as if by magic, your twin flame is right there to support and raise you up.
When you think about it… It makes perfect sense. Since your twin flame and yourself were once one and the same, it’s natural that you can both relate to what the other’s going through. Your connection is deeper than anything you’ve ever felt before, it’s almost telepathic. Now whether or not you believe in telepathy is up to you, but there’s no denying the strength of the twin flame connection.
When you need support, the first thought that pops into your head is to go to your twin flame. Similarly, in a twin flame relationship, you’ll notice your partner will come to you for support. You might even find yourself having a feeling that you should be there. That’s the twin flame bond, right there.
When it comes to being in a twin flame relationship, it feels like all you need is that one person, they are your go-to support, and you’re their go-to support. It’s a relationship of mutual understanding and care.
In other words, your thoughts align.
3. You Feel Like You’re Growing as a Person
In a twin flame relationship, your partner does more than loving you. They nurture you.
Growing is a part of life, but deeper spiritual growth normally has to be manifested. When it comes to twin flames, the situation is, in a way, reversed. Extreme spiritual and emotional growth happens regardless of whether or not you ask for it, and unfortunately… Whether or not you’re ready for it.
In a twin flame relationship, you’ll feel as though your life is advancing quickly, perhaps at a pace that you’re not comfortable with at first. This isn’t a bad thing per se, though. Instead, this means that you’re undergoing a stage of spiritual awakening and transformation.
Although every twin flame relationship is different since every “soul cloth” is unique, this shocking spiritual evolution is a clear indicator of the presence of a twin flame in your life.
4. There’s an Overwhelming Sense of Freedom
Now, it might sound weird, but in a twin flame relationship, you’re going to feel free.
Partly due to how easy it is to be honest, that feeling of having nothing to hide translates in a sense of freedom. In a twin flame relationship, both partners share the same values. This makes it extremely easy to trust each other. The boundaries of a twin flame relationship are always clear, but it never feels constricting.
Instead, these shared values actually manifest themselves as a spiritual liberation. As odd as it sounds and as weird as it feels, there’s a reason this is the case.
Twin flames, having once been a single soul, are already living in sync with the other twin. This leads to spiritual liberation and accomplishment in the relationship.
5. Your Shortcomings Become Apparent
Just as a twin flame naturally brings out the best in you, they also lead to a sudden revelation of your shortcomings. You may have already known them, but a twin flame relationship challenges you as much as they empower you.
This isn’t a bad thing, it’s instead a consequence of the sudden spiritual shift you’re undergoing. Your twin flame is there to awaken you to both your strengths and your weaknesses.
Unlike a soul mate, you won’t essentially always get along with your twin flame.
The sheer trust and honesty you both share won’t allow it.
Twin flame relationships involve a lot of re-evaluation, and often causes drastic life changes. Priorities, thought processes, energies, vibrations, everything changes suddenly. We all have our shortcomings, and in a twin flame relationship, they are brought to light. Not because they are inherently bad, but because they are part of who you are. In that respect, just like everything else, that part of you also has to grow and spiritually evolve.
Are Twin Flame Relationships All Sunshine & Rainbows?
Absolutely not. No way, José.
By expanding on the fifth sign of a twin flame relationship, this starts to make sense.
Twin flames, unlike soul mates, often end up butting heads. Despite the honesty, comfort and care in the relationship, disagreements will arise due to personality divergence. Despite being twin flames, both souls in a relationship have grown apart differently. This is bound to result in some confusion and disagreements.
On top of that, bringing your flaws to light and working on them is not easy, even in a twin flame relationship.
Adding more wood to the proverbial scorching-hot fire, the first stages of a twin flame relationship, which generally last from a few months to a few years, are accompanied with severe disagreements due to sudden and shocking spiritual growth.
All of these aspects culminate into what may seem as a pretty negative experience. However, it’s the complete opposite!
The negativity in a twin flame relationship is actually… Not negativity.
It’s a sign of your soul maturing, adapting and growing. Keep in mind that a twin flame relationship is a fundamentally awakening and spiritually challenging experience. It’s not a surprise to find out that there are many cases of twin flames choosing to remain separate from each other for extended periods of time. The sheer amount of confusion can be, and often is overwhelming at the start of a twin flame relationship.
Think about it, in a twin flame relationship you’re with someone cut from the same original soul. If you’ve got arguments or misgivings hidden away deep within your soul, a twin flame relationship will bring them to light.
And if you let it, it will be the most insightful, revealing and exciting experience of your lifetime.
Twin flame relationships offer something that you can get absolutely nowhere else. They offer a window deep into your heart, a mirror reflecting your most subtle facets. A twin flame relationship brings to light who you really are, and who you can be.
Is There a Twin Flame for Everybody?
A twin flame relationship is a concept that, in it’s most basic form, transcend the bounds of a typical, physical and material life.
Being two parts of the same original soul is nothing short of seriously confusing.
We’ve gone over the signs that could reveal if you’re in a twin flame relationship or what to look for to find one… But is there even a twin flame for everybody?
This is definitely a valid question because nobody has actually seen these “souls” split into two separate entities. However, don’t let that stop you, because the truth is far from an assumption.
The reality behind twin flame relationships is that everyone has a twin flame. Our spirits were all bound to another living human being’s in the past. Being in a twin flame relationship is the reuniting of those two long-forgotten halves. Of course everyone has a twin flame, because no soul is greater than another, this has to be a fundamental reality.
If you’re already with your twin flame, congratulations! It’s not all sunshine and rainbows, but the end result is a miraculous fusion of love and happiness.
But don’t you worry if you haven’t found your twin flame yet!
Rest assured that they are there. One tip I would give you to find them would be to practice manifestation on a regular basis. Really focus on the law of attraction and what it means to be part of a twin flame relationship.
Whether or not you’ve found your twin flame. One thing’s for sure; we’re all creators, so strive to manifest the life you deserve.
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